adult frindships

Faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen, as stated in Hebrews 11:1. It involves trusting in God's promises even when the path ahead seems unclear, like navigating a construction zone through a jungle. True faith means standing firm with unwavering confidence that God is already working on our behalf.

God never intended for us to walk our faith journey alone. He provides us with the Holy Spirit and blesses us with what can be called "4 Corner Friends" – those who support and carry us to Jesus when we lack the strength or clarity to see the way forward. Seeking God first is crucial, as it is through this relationship that we gain the strength, provision, and community necessary to nurture our faith.

Building adult friendships requires time, energy, and intentionality, but it is part of God's plan for us and His Kingdom's growth. He knows exactly who we need in our lives and in whose life we are meant to be a supportive presence, tailored to each season. As we pray for our own "4 Corner Friends," we can take comfort in knowing that we are supported by a community, such as the But God Sister Squad, standing in the corner for us.

In the spirit of Valentine's Day, this blog post reflects on the profound lessons learned from three unique friendships, each illustrating different facets of love and connection. The first story recounts a friendship with a pastor's wife that blossomed unexpectedly, teaching the value of mutual support and growth in leadership and faith. This relationship, divinely orchestrated, became a cornerstone for both individuals during a crucial time of personal development and ministry.

The second narrative explores an unexpected bond formed during a sabbatical in Florida, where the author, initially resistant to new connections, found a friend whose outgoing nature and hospitality were exactly what was needed for spiritual growth. This friendship, though unplanned, played a vital role in deepening the author's relationship with the Lord, showcasing how God uses others to support us in our spiritual journeys. The beauty of this connection lay in its unexpectedness and the profound impact it had on both individuals.

Finally, the third story describes a surprising friendship formed at a women's conference, where the author and a stranger were assigned as roommates. Both women were dealing with personal struggles, particularly the roommate who was grieving a recent miscarriage. Their shared experiences of loss and understanding created a deep, comforting bond, demonstrating how God can bring people together in the most unexpected ways to provide solace and companionship. These stories collectively highlight the mysterious and wonderful ways in which friendships can manifest and nurture our souls.