In this insightful blog post, the importance of preparation before life's inevitable storms is emphasized, highlighting that both physical and emotional challenges require foresight and readiness. Rather than focusing solely on tangible weather storms, the article draws a parallel to the personal storms within us that can arise unexpectedly. By referencing biblical principles, particularly Matthew 6:33, the post emphasizes the importance of seeking spiritual grounding and being anchored in faith to navigate life's unpredictable challenges.
The article provides practical advice about storm preparation, drawing on the experiences of living in storm-prone areas like the Gulf Coast. It stresses the necessity of being prepared with essential supplies and equipment to alleviate stress and maintain peace during unexpected weather events. The lessons learned in physical preparation translate seamlessly into emotional fortitude, reinforcing the idea that preparation for life's internal storms—through mindfulness and a strong spiritual connection—can reduce fear and chaos.
Furthermore, the blog underscores that even though challenges will occur regardless of one's faith, being spiritually proactive equips individuals to handle these situations with courage and tranquility. The post encourages readers to be mindful and intentional in their spiritual journey, ensuring they are mentally prepared to face life's trials. By maintaining focus on spiritual truths and being rooted in faith, individuals can manage personal storms more effectively, knowing they are supported and never alone.
Read more...In a world where many of us wear metaphorical masks to navigate our diverse roles, this article reflects on the journey of shedding those masks to reveal authenticity. The writer describes how perpetual smiling masks served as armor, presenting an image of strength and reliability while simultaneously concealing personal struggles and vulnerability. This narrative highlights the isolating nature of independence without community, encouraging a balance between giving to others and finding strength in one’s own needs being met.
The blog post underscores a transformative journey towards authentic leadership through the removal of such masks. As the writer shares personal struggles, it fosters a newfound connection with others facing similar challenges. The notion here is that true courage lies in vulnerability, where sharing both blessings and burdens bridges gaps and transforms previous protective barriers into collective strength and understanding.
Ultimately, the article advocates for genuine interactions surrounded by supportive communities that allow leaders to flourish. It emphasizes the importance of being supported by trusted friends and mentors, encouraging leaders to accept help and find solace in shared experiences. Embracing authenticity, leaders can demonstrate strength, instill healing, and foster an environment that allows their circle of influence to thrive genuinely and holistically.
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As we approach 2025, many of us are starting to think about our goals for the coming year. But have you ever noticed how easily we can get stuck when someone asks us why we want to achieve something? Too often, we find ourselves shrugging and saying, "I don't know." It's time to change that narrative and dig deeper into our motivations. Let's explore how asking "so that" instead of "why" can revolutionize your goal-setting process.
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The Problem with asking yourself “Why" 5 times….
"Why" is a powerful question, but it can sometimes feel overwhelming when there are so many levels in our reasoning. When asked why we want to achieve something, we might feel defensive because our brain is freaking out and it becomes easier to toss out the “I Don’t Know.”. This can lead to surface-level answers or, worse, giving up on our goals altogether.
Here’s a little brain hack that is working for me, maybe it will wok for you if you find yourself blocking yourself…..try asking the "So That.”
By shifting our language from "why" to "so that," we open up to a specific thing. This simple change helps us focus on the outcomes and benefits of our goals, rather than just the reasons behind them. It encourages us to think more deeply about what we truly want to achieve.
Here are some examples:
1. Instead of asking, "Why do I want to lose weight?" try:
"I want to lose weight so that I can have more energy to play with my kids."
2. Rather than, "Why do I want a promotion?" consider:
"I want a promotion so that I can take on more challenging projects and grow my skills."
3. Instead of, "Why do I want to learn a new language?" think:
"I want to learn a new language so that I can connect with people from different cultures and broaden my impact.”
More examples:
"I want to start a blog so that I can share my ideas with others, so that I can help change more lives.”
“I want to build a community of like-minded individuals, so that we can share one another’s burdens and lift the loneliness epidemic while also sharpening each others’s hearts and minds.”
“I want to be a better leader personally, so that I can make a positive impact on people's lives closest to me and as The oLd leads, so that I am walking confidently in my strengths nd purpose.”
As you start planning your 2025 goals, try this exercise:
1. Write down a goal you want to achieve.
2. Ask yourself, "I want to achieve this so that..."
3. Then, take this to the Lord and ask Him when I do this, how does this help me serve YOU better? How does this prepare me for the “so that” which You have planned for me, with You.
By reframing our goals with "so that," we cut through the surface-level reasons and get to the heart of what truly drives us. This approach not only clarifies our objectives but also reinforces our commitment to achieving them.
As you look ahead to 2025, challenge yourself to go beyond the "why" and embrace the "so that." You might be surprised at the insights you gain and the renewed sense of purpose you feel. Remember, understanding the deeper reasons behind your goals is the first step to turning them into reality.
So, what do you want to achieve in 2025, and more importantly, what does GOD have planned fo you, so that…?!?
Blessings & Grace,
Michele
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Heart Hugs and Blessings,
Michele
Hey Sweet Introvert!
Are you running on fumes, pouring from an empty cup while trying to serve everyone, but yourself? It’s important to take time to hit the pause button and embrace a much-needed ‘Off the Grid-ish Escape.’ You don't really have to LITERALLY go "off-grid" but taking time away from Daily Life Demands are important.
Since 2009, I’ve learned the refreshing power of stepping away from life’s demands to recharge my heart, mind, and soul.
In this blog, I’ll share a practical example of what it looked like for me, in discovering rest and refreshment through quiet moments with the Lord, new adventures, and sweet treats. Whether it’s a walk in nature or savoring a homemade treat, these intentional breaks bring renewed joy and energy to live fully. Ready for your own permission slip to rest? I Got You! THIS is it!!! Signed, Your Big Sister, Michele
Read more...Then escapes begin to happen…running away from things or people. Avoiding, because you don’t feel like you have anything in the tank to give.
Feel seen? I see you, you are not alone.
Burnout is something many of us experience and I believe we can do a lot to avoid it. Let’s chat about what burnout is, how it can show up in our lives, and some practical steps to help us find rest and renewal.
