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How to Stop Feeling Overwhelmed as a Christian Mom : Every Day Leadership for the Every Day Woman

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Moms are Leaders. Funny how we don't really see ourselves this way in the every day life things. We just do life, doing the every day Mom Things. We cater to the house and manage all the things, often without managing ALL the things. We tend to let the things, manage us.

I see it all the time…Moms feeling overwhelmed, loosing themselves in the day to day Mom Life. You don’t have to scroll for long before finding culture’s answer: Self Care and Wine. Well, I’d like to offer some practical, helpful, and healthy help on this topic!

As I scroll through the different Mom Groups, I see people asking "How do I organize my day?" or " How do I get it all done?" "When do Moms get a day off?!" “I feel like a Maid more than a Mom.”  The common answer 99% of the time is Time Blocking. Setting an allowed amount of time to check off tasks from the To Do list for the day, giving yourself the top 3 things that are the Must Dos and filling in the rest in the day with the should dos.

As a Mom of 4, I know the stress of being needed 24/7. As a person who dreamed of being a Full Time Mom once I had my babies, this was supposed to be the dream, and don't get me wrong, it was, still is! But it doesn't mean I don't get overwhelmed or exhausted. What other job out there is literally 24/7?!

I live and love big in every moment. I believe my home is my mission field. I have always owned my deep responsibility to train up, guard, protect and inspire my babies and all who entered my home. I had the Mile Long To Do list in my head but I never felt rested or in control. Life was simply busy and always moving a few notches faster than I felt I could keep up with.

In 2009 I had to tweak the Daily Things when my adrenals crashed and burned. I had high expectations of myself and unrealistic ones at that. I thought being a Stay at Home Mom, a Proverbs 31 women, all meant I had to put everyone else's needs love my own and be the Yes to Bless.

But in 2008, all the over-extended yeses led me to burn out. It ‘wasn’t just saying yes. While I poured out a lot, I never poured back in. While it was an awful season, it was the best season because in the drought, in these fires, I was refined. 

People pleasing in the name of Servant-Leadership, Perfectionism in the name of Serving with Excellence, Lack of Sleep in the name of A Mom's Work is Never Done. This was how I saw my role as a Proverbs 31 Woman. She did it all, exceedingly well, without help.

Have you found yourself saying the same things?!? What about “I need a vacation!” “I wish I could have 30 minutes to myself.” “I wish my family understood how much I do and stop making me feel guilty for not being able to jump up and help them at their demand.” “I don’t feel like I have any friends anymore.” “I wish my home was less chaotic.” “I don’t have any energy left and it’s only 5:41pm.” “My life feels like Groundhog Day.” “ I am about to lose my mind.” 

If you have said any one of these, I am here to be a Sister Friend of encouragement and hope for you! Eventhough you haven’t said it, I am pretty sure that’s how and why you you are still here at this point in the blog. Yah, we are the same.  Keep reading! I see you. 

You recognize the need to pause, but you aren’t finding the permission to do so. You feel as if you would be less than if you somehow took a break or admitted you were exhausted. I know…..

Why not, is my first question. We can go really deep here. But since this is a little bloggy blog, let’s just say we need to really look at the why not here. Is it lack of self control? People Pleasing? Unrealistic expectations from self or others? Lack of self worth? Feel like you have to earn your worth? Prove your value or ability?!? ohhhhh….we are going there…..

Sister Friend, let’s take a HUGE belly breath together….in….out….okay. The comfort in this….you are not alone!!!!! You are also not a failure or less than by taking a break or putting a schedule to your day! Before this becomes a Blog-Book (lol), let’s carry this over to the next Blog for the Part 2 of this conversation! See ya over there.



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Heart Hugs and Blessings,
Michele
I am so glad (and honored) you are here! I have been blogging since 2009 as a way to journal out my thoughts as I pray God would use these story shares as practical heart encouragements for YOU TOO! We all need to recall and share those Living Stone moments.
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Heart Hugs and Blessings,

Michele"For this reason I bow my knees before the Father, from whom every family in heaven and on earth is named that according to the riches of His glory He may grant you to be strengthened with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith--that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may have strength to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God.
Now to Him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us, to Him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever. Amen."
Ephesians 3:14-21 ESV


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A Little About My Heart

 
Born and raised in the church, a Christ Follower, Kingdom Encourager, Wife, Mama, and an Overcomer! GLORY TO GOD!!

I lived most of my life fearful, anxious, and insecure.. I found myself always hiding but serving, striving for perfection in my less-thanness, as a way to earn my worth to self, God and others, sacrificing in the name of serving, hospitality and humility...putting others needs before my own from a place of hiding in my lack, and trying to earn value rather than serving in the space of grace, confident faith and overflowing love. 

Never attaining, only to lead a life of more insecurity, overwhelm, anxiety, and panic, screaming to break free from this bondage, to be that actual strong, courageous Christian Woman everyone else seemed to be, but me. 

BUT GOD.

In 2009, Where Faith Is was born as a blog, learning my voice behind the safety of a keyboard, building courage to speak my truth behind the screen...and here all these years later, Little by little, God is expanding my heart boundaries as He reveals more of His to me. I am so excited to share so freely! 

I especially love being an encourager to other encouragers in the faith who know they are called to encourage yet they themselves struggle with their value and ability. Isn't that how the enemy works? He tries to disqualify us in the same area we are called to shine! What an irony!  

I believe if more people let go of fear and insecurity, surrendered to grace and BELIEVED their value, their spark for life will return to a roaring fire that lights up wet wood! 

When women choose to walk courageous and strong in body, mind and spirit...they step out of the boat and walk on water as Peter did, part the waters like Moses and set more people FREE in His name through their Divine purpose to the Glory of GOD! We are each a Light House of Strength on the shorelines of Grace . 

Friend, you may not believe it, but you are meant for more than eat/sleep/work/repeat. You are also equipped with good works to serve and bless the Kingdom Body, and the world with His Love, through YOU! You've got to surrender your fear and let Him lead you.

You are more able than you think you are and most likely, the thing you feel is the weakest part of you is the strongest thing about you!

If you are an introvert too and want to be a part of our newly launching online community, we are here for you!! Let's Connect! It's an honor to encourage the Encouragers.

I am H.I.S. (Heart In Surrender & Service).

Hugs & Blessings, 
Michele

"So if there is any encouragement in Christ, any comfort from love, any participation in the Spirit, any affection and sympathy, complete my joy by being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind. Do nothing from rivalry or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. 
Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others." Philippians 2:1-4

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