DORM LIFE: What to Pack and Leave Behind

Our Must-Have Dorm Essentials: What to Pack and What to Leave Behind

Sending your child off to college is a big milestone, and one of the most daunting tasks can be figuring out what they need to bring with them. The goal is to pack efficiently and effectively, ensuring they have everything they need without overpacking. In this blog, I am sharing my must-have dorm essentials, from bedding and kitchen supplies to tech gadgets and study essentials, as well as items that are better left at home. Hope it helps you too as you are preparing for college.

Bedding & Room Essentials

Must-Have Items:
  1. Comfortable Sheets and Pillowcases: Twin XL size is standard for most dorms.
  2. Mattress Protector: For hygiene and comfort. She is a hot sleeper and really liked this one the best, from Amazon. Quick tip: You will want to open it before you get to the dorm so it can open up and air out.  We wrapped it back up like a sleeping bag - go ahead and place the fitted sheet and top sheet on it, flip it upside-down and roll it up! It's easier with 2 people to help smoosh it! Then, we "tied it" with some packing tape, or if you have 2 belts, one on each end...then tucked it inside a trash bag to easily toss in the car!
  3. Comforter or Duvet: Choose something cozy and easy to clean.
  4. Pillows: One for sleeping and perhaps an extra for lounging or decorating.
  5. Blanket or Throw: For extra warmth or a cozy study session. Keep the super sentimental ones at home, but for sure bring one from home too for comfort. Weighted blankets are great for light sleepers or if your kiddo has some anxiety or nerves happening.
  6. Diffuser: For air quality as well as emotional support. Here's our favorite LED one from Amazon.
Leave Behind:
  • Multiple decorative pillows: They take up space and are rarely used.
  • Heavy, oversized comforters: Dorm rooms can be small and warm.

Kitchen Supplies

Must-Have Items:
  1. Mini Fridge: Great for snacks and drinks. We found ours at Home Depot. Some colleges have re-sell groups too!
  2. Small Blender for Protein Shakes: Quick healthy options for a meal or snack without all the sugar from the store bought ones. This is ours.
  3. Microwave and/or Crockpots: Convenient for meals, although some may not allow it. Many floors have a mini-kitchen set up.
  4. Reusable Water Bottle: Staying hydrated is key. Here's our favorite one. Plus it fits in Jeeps! Don't forget the bottle brush to clean it.
  5. Dishware: A few plates, bowls, and utensils.
  6. Coffee Maker: If your student is a coffee drinker, a small coffee maker can be a lifesaver. I would buy this one of she was.
  7. Fridge Containers: A designated shelf with labeled containers is helpful when sharing a fridge with other students. Grabbing these!
  8. Paper Towel & Cleaner Combo: Roomates can share the refilling - grabbing this one from Amazon for her room and the shared kitchen space
  9. Trash Can & Liners: Depending on set up with roommates, having a large one in the room is helpful. Super basic to Bougie!
Leave Behind:
  • Large kitchen appliances: Space is limited and most dorms have communal kitchens, and may not allow certain appliances like toasters and instapots.
  • Excessive dishware: A few key items will suffice.

Tech Gadgets

Must-Have Items:
  1. Laptop: Essential for classes, homework, and staying connected. We are an Apple family and use the MacBook Pro.
  2. Phone Charger Station: Vital for organization of Phone, Watch and Earbuds. We have had this one for 2 years now.
  3. Power Strip with Surge Protector: Dorms often have limited outlets. Here was our choice from Amazon.
  4. Portable Charger: For on-the-go device charging.
  5. Noise-Canceling Headphones: Great for studying or blocking out noise.
  6. Wireless Earbuds: These have been great and inexpensive.
  7. Batteries:  Few AAA and AA on hand for devices.
Leave Behind:
  • Desktop computer: Takes up too much space and is less versatile than a laptop.
  • Large sound systems: Can be disruptive and are often unnecessary.

Study Essentials

Must-Have Items:
  1. Desk Lamp: A good lamp with adjustable brightness and spread for late-night study sessions. I'd do this one next time.
  2. Notebooks and Binders: For organizing notes and assignments. We found best deals at the Dollar type stores.
  3. Pens, Pencils, Highlighters: Basic supplies for taking notes. Just grab those when you see Back To School Sales at the local stores.
  4. Planner or Calendar: To keep track of assignments and important dates. My Super Organized Friend made this one to print! (Reach out to her for all things organization! It's on the PDF.)
  5. Backpack: Durable and comfortable for carrying books and supplies.
  6. Additional items: Scissors, paper clips, rubber bands, small desk trash can
Leave Behind:
  • Excessive office supplies: Only a minimal amount is typically needed.
  • Bulky desk organizers: Space is limited; keep it simple.

Personal Care Items

Must-Have Items:
  1. Toiletries, etc: Shampoo, conditioner, soap, toothbrush, toothpaste, razor, toilet paper, paper towel, nail care and feminine supplies.
  2. Shower Caddy: To carry items to and from communal bathrooms. Since her bathroom is in her room, she uses a rolling caddy.  
  3. Towels: A few bath towels and washcloths or scrubby.
  4. Laundry Basket and Detergent: Essential for laundry days. We loved this one with rollers from Amazon! Tip: Buy a little Tupperware dispenser like for salad dressing, or a type of canteen so they can have a small container of the detergent and not carry a big heavy one!
  5. First Aid Kit: Basic supplies for minor injuries or illnesses. Here's the one she also tosses in her cr when traveling home.
  6. Calm Magnesium Mix: So great for stressful days of testing or pmsing, easily mixed into water or any juice. Grab it here on Amazon.
  7. Electrolytes & Lions Mane Powders: This is a powerhouse juice packet, especially if your student doesn't drink coffee or want to avoid energy drinks. 
  8. Healthy Energy Drink: For the teens who insist on drinking out of the can, here's the one our family drinks on occasion.
Leave Behind:
  • Excessive makeup or grooming products: Bring only what is used regularly.
  • Large bottles of toiletries: Opt for smaller, more manageable sizes.

Clothing

Must-Have Items:
  1. Comfortable Clothing: Casual wear for classes and study sessions. Most classrooms are cold, fyi.
  2. Professional Outfit: For presentations, observations days or job interviews. Some may have dress codes, but basic black or kaki is the normal for bottoms.
  3. Weather-Appropriate Gear: A good mix of clothing for different seasons and don't forget the umbrella.
  4. On The Go Weekend or Bag: For on-the-go weekend trips home or otherwise. Something like this from Amazon.
  5. Shoes: A few pairs, including comfortable walking shoes and shower shoes.
Leave Behind:
  • Out-of-season clothes: These can be swapped out during visits home.
  • Excessive accessories: Keep it simple and practical.

Miscellaneous Essentials

Must-Have Items:
  1. Cleaning Supplies: Disinfecting wipes, paper towels, and a small broom or vacuum. Here's our Amazon vacuum.
  2. Air Purifier: We loved this little set, kept one at home and one for her room. Here they are from Amazon.
  3. Tower Fan: Dorms can be warm. We grabbed ours at Sams for around $120. It was similar to this one on Amazon.
  4. Personal Documents: ID, health insurance card, and any necessary paperwork. Keep them in a small dorm safe. Found this one on Amazon.
  5. Basic Tool Kit: Small screwdriver set and adhesive hooks. We got her this one.
  6. Decorations: A few simple personal touches to make the space feel like home. There are a variety of wall displays. Here's one from Amazon.
Leave Behind:
  • Too many decorations: Keep it minimal to avoid clutter.
  • Expensive or irreplaceable items: Dorms are communal spaces and things can get lost or damaged.
By focusing on these must-have items and avoiding overpacking, you can help ensure your student is well-prepared for their college experience while keeping their dorm room organized and functional. Remember, it's always possible to purchase additional items as needed once they've settled in. Happy packing, and best of luck to your college-bound student!


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Linger and Listen : Encouragement for Divine Stillness

In our fast-paced lives, even during the Summer, we often rush through tasks, leaving little room for spiritual reflection. However, as Christians, we are called to slow down and dwell in God's presence, as highlighted in Psalm 46:10, "Be still, and know that I am God." This pause allows us to set aside distractions and find peace in His presence, mirroring the example set by Jesus, who frequently withdrew to pray and connect with the Father.

Taking time to linger in God's presence provides space for the Holy Spirit to guide us, offering several transformative benefits. Deepened relationships, renewed strength, and inner peace are among the rewards, as spending undistracted time with God enriches our spiritual lives. Isaiah 40:31 and Philippians 4:6-7 remind us of the strength and peace that come from waiting on the Lord and bringing everything to Him in prayer.

To foster this practice, start by creating a quiet space for worship and Bible reading, and make time to linger and listen after prayer. Recording your thoughts and insights through journaling can also track your spiritual growth. Prioritize this connection with God, beginning with small, manageable time frames, and gradually extending them as you grow more comfortable, allowing His presence to bring more intimacy, peace, and clarity to your life.
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Celebrating Mom Life

This heartfelt tribute to mothers captures the essence of motherhood, celebrating the often overlooked day-to-day realities that moms endure with grace and strength. It acknowledges the wide spectrum of maternal experiences—from the messy and exhausting moments of raising children to the poignant times of silent sacrifice and unwavering love. The post honors mothers for their resilience, for the countless ways they express their love and commitment, and for the profound impact they have on their children's lives.

The blog post serves as a reminder of the deep and abiding love that mothers have, one that perseveres through sleepless nights, endless worry, and the countless sacrifices made for the well-being of their children. It recognizes the unique challenges of motherhood, from dealing with the physical toll to navigating the emotional landscape of raising a child, all while balancing personal needs and aspirations. Furthermore, it encourages mothers to find their strength, peace, and joy in the unwavering love and support that surrounds them, highlighting the never-ending cycle of love and care that mothers exemplify.

In closing, the post extends a Happy Mother’s Day wish, affirming the incredible role mothers play and the indelible mark they leave on their children and the world. It underscores the notion that a mother's love and her profound influence transcend time, impacting generations to come. Moreover, it serves as a powerful declaration of support, reminding mothers everywhere that they possess the grace, strength, and love necessary to meet the demands of motherhood, each and every day.
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A Spring in Your Step : Managing Seasons of Life


Don’t let the smile fool ya…It’s been a tough week. Anyone else have one of those days, you aren't sure if it's your hormones, an attitude, an emotion trapped, them, or you?!? I felt weighted all week, until today. I got dressed for church (without much color / joy to be honest) and as I grabbed my sweet new Church Note Journal, it made me smile. 

These sweet spring flowers glowed against my blah. It reminded me that God makes all things new, and Spring is just that reminder. You know that feeling when you see a new puppy?!? Like that! Instant joy. 
(It’s also a reminder how important sleep is too😜)

There is a season for everything and we too, can spring forward!!! 

I think sometimes we hibernate in the winter so comfortably that when the sun begins to shine, we feel a little nervous about the new energy we see sprouting and we’ve gotten really comfortable in our snuggle up winter clothes and fluffy blankets, it’s hard to get up and outside. We’ve also lost a little “muscle” in our winter. 

His mercies are new every day!! They are not seasonal as the enemy would like you to think.

So, with a deep breath, I went back in to my closet and found something Springy to wear. 
I literally felt the lyrics, It is well, with my soul. It is well. 

My heart uttered, Lord, let this little Light of mine shine for You today. Bring me into Spring and show me what’s new today. Let Your Light in. 

Time Springs forward and so can we. 

The clock is gonna keep ticking and the seasons consistently rolling through, and yes, each season has its own kind of storms…and we know this. It’s just those transition days that are the hardest. 

Something as silly and simple as wearing a brighter color or choosing a favorite accessory, is and easy transition choice, in the the process of choosing different, choosing to spring up, pick up, be up vs down. It’s not the clothes….its not the hype music…it’s not a double cup of caffeine….

It’s being clothed and covered in God’s hope and joy in every season. 
It’s keeping in step with His seasons, understanding the uniqueness of each one and not only preparing for them, but walking with anticipation in to the newness of them.

So, if you’re still trying to transition out of a Winter Coat, here’s your challenge to go back in to your “closet” and find a Springy something to put on! (Col 3:12-17, Phil 4:8-9)

The sweet thing is, through you, you become someone else’s Spring encounter. 
So, SMILE, SURRENDER and SPRING FORWARD SISTERS!!!!! 

His mercies are NEW!!!! Grace upon Grace!!!

Lamentations 3:21-26

If you are looking for a journal to help you stay focused and put a little Spiring Step in your church going moments, take a look at this one and see if it makes you smile too! 




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Michele

Recognizing Scarcity in our Faith Life : Finding Abundance

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Just because it has been, doesn't mean it always will be.

Yes, I believe history, in general, repeats itself. If things don't change, things won't change. 

As a Christ Follower, I also believe some things in history will not repeat itself because there is no lack of newness of life in God's Kingdom realm. In the timeline economy of God, time is relative...some things will repeat themselves, but for many things they will not. 

Let me explain.

Have you ever caught yourself saying something like, "Well, it happened once, I am sure it will happen again," "It's in my family,"  "I will never change," "this always happens," "it happened to her, I am sure it will happen to me too."

Here are some of the assumptions I have made over the years in my own personal life...

  • My Grandma had cancer, I probably will too.
  • I miscarried once, I probably will this time too.
  • My friend's husband struggled, I am sure mine will too.
  • Doors never opened, I guess now they never will.
  • I don't have an inner circle of Sister Friends, I guess I never will.
  • I wasn't successful in that, I won't be successful in this either.
  • It's in the family, I guess it always will be.
  • I lost that time, I will surely lose this time.
  • They have it so its not meant for me.
  • It didn't work last time, it won't work this time.

BUT GOD...


Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. Psalm 139:23

Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see. Hebrews 11:1

Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.Consider him who endured such opposition from sinners, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart. Hebrews 12:1-3

I am the LORD, your Holy One, Israel’s Creator, your King.” This is what the LORD says— he who made a way through the sea, a path through the mighty waters, who drew out the chariots and horses, the army and reinforcements together, and they lay there, never to rise again, extinguished, snuffed out like a wick:
“Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland. Isaiah 43:16-19

Aware of their discussion, Jesus asked,  “You of little faith, why are you talking among yourselves about having no bread? Do you still not understand? Don’t you remember the five loaves for the five thousand, and how many basketfuls you gathered? Matthew 16:8-9


We believe scarcely. I can't help but wonder how many of us are suffering with a scarcity mindset when it comes to newness of life in Christ. He is our renewing, healing, redemption. In Christ, chains are broken, curses lifted, He makes a way when there seems to be no way, blessing abound in His Name.

His power dwells within us and in Him, we are new creations, each one of us fearfully and wonderfully made, hemmed in before our breath took it's first gasp on earth. He seeks after what is lost that they may be found. He parts waters, purifies, protects, conquers, removes, satisfies...He is the God of mercy and healing.  

He is doing a new thing, always.

In Him, we armor up in faith, believing, trusting, seeking, refining, pruning, maturing, sanctifying, fighting...surrendering.

"I remember when," is a great recall both in the Word and by word of testimony from your own life, but also through others. This is why it's so important we share our testimonies as evidence! I love the lyrics, "Who am I to deny what the Lord can do." As Christ Followers we are charged with renewing our minds and fixing our eyes on Jesus, not on the earthly things our flesh dwells amongst, rather the eternal....the redemption and circumcision of Christ's Love. 

History will not always repeat itself and what was will not always be when we look Heavenward.

Blind will see.
Death will live.
Lost will be found.
Mercy will renew.
Dead will rise.
Old will be new.

Jesus came to set captives free and in Him, our hope strengthens, by faith that He is Over All. 

So whatever it is in your life that was,  "it WAS."

Let God be your "IS."

Does this mean nothing bad will ever happen or repeat itself? No. I love what Paul says, he has learned how to be content in the plans of God, in turbulent waters and beside still waters alike. In the fire and in the den, He is with us. 

We can choose to live, not in our flesh that WAS, but our spirit that IS, in the abundance of surrender that says, "I believe God can do anything." Will our faith set us free from the bondage of "cants?" Yes. We choose to live in the blessing and provision of God, according to HIS perfect will for our lives. 

It won't always look like what we thought it would and He certainly is not a Magic Genie to grant our wishes, but He is Lord and Creator over all who is head over all things and in Him all things are redeemed and held together. Everything sifts through His hands, meant for our good and His glory alone.

Grace Upon Grace....we are NOT as we were!!! Glory to God! 

His Word, Who Was and Is, will always be, forever and ever. THIS is our history, NOW!

Through the unknown, through what was, through the deep waters, Go Change History by Faith Sister! His heart is for you!!!
Your Heart Sister, Michele 


In the next blog, let's talk about the power of our words since Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits.






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