My Daily "Supplement" Routine as a 53 Year Old
What I Actually Use: My Daily Stack for Focus, Energy & Feeling Like Myself Again and a few Bonus thingsIf you’ve ever asked me, “What do you use every day that actually works?”
Read more...Hospitality, Lattes and Leadership: Pouring out Wisdom in our Relationships with Others
What Pouring Lattes Taught Me About Titus 2Two weeks ago, it was my friend Martha's birthday and I wanted to do something different, and specific her. Something money couldn't buy, maybe somet
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The Importance of Friendship for Christian Introverts: Finding Your Circle
Faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen, as stated in Hebrews 11:1. It involves trusting in God's promises even when the path ahead seems unclear, like navigating a construction zone through a jungle. True faith means standing firm with unwavering confidence that God is already working on our behalf.God never intended for us to walk our faith journey alone. He provides us with the Holy Spirit and blesses us with what can be called "4 Corner Friends" – those who support and carry us to Jesus when we lack the strength or clarity to see the way forward. Seeking God first is crucial, as it is through this relationship that we gain the strength, provision, and community necessary to nurture our faith.Building adult friendships requires time, energy, and intentionality, but it is part of God's plan for us and His Kingdom's growth. He knows exactly who we need in our lives and in whose life we are meant to be a supportive presence, tailored to each season. As we pray for our own "4 Corner Friends," we can take comfort in knowing that we are supported by a community, such as the But God Sister Squad, standing in the corner for us.
Read more...Embracing Forgiveness and Love: Lessons from the Resurrection
Embracing Forgiveness and Love: Lessons from the ResurrectionIn the aftermath of Easter, many of us find ourselves reflecting on the profound lessons of the resurrection. This period is not just a cel
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Christian Burnout: Moses’ Lessons to Overcome Exhaustion & Find Rest
Feeling overwhelmed and on the brink of burnout is a common experience among Christian women juggling multiple responsibilities. With a staggering rise in burnout rates, notably among pastors, it's evident that this issue extends throughout the community, impacting personal well-being and spiritual health. Embracing rest, as modeled by The Creator on the seventh day, is crucial for balancing life, work, and faith.The constant busyness many women experience can be spiritually, emotionally, and physically draining, compounded by the belief that rest is unspiritual or selfish. Yet, recognizing rest as a divine gift can transform our approach to life’s demands. By looking at Moses, we learn about the power of delegation, trusting in divine provision, facing challenges with faith, and nurturing relationships—all essential strategies to counter burnout.Christian women can apply these lessons by embracing God-given rest, sharing responsibilities, nurturing their spiritual life, and building supportive relationships. Rest is not laziness; it’s essential for maintaining peace, wellness, and wholeness. As we learn to navigate life with balance and grace, let’s follow these biblical principles and enjoy the fullness of life as intended.
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Three Bizarre Christian Friendship Stories: Adult Friendships You Didn't Know You Needed
In the spirit of Valentine's Day, this blog post reflects on the profound lessons learned from three unique friendships, each illustrating different facets of love and connection. The first story recounts a friendship with a pastor's wife that blossomed unexpectedly, teaching the value of mutual support and growth in leadership and faith. This relationship, divinely orchestrated, became a cornerstone for both individuals during a crucial time of personal development and ministry.The second narrative explores an unexpected bond formed during a sabbatical in Florida, where the author, initially resistant to new connections, found a friend whose outgoing nature and hospitality were exactly what was needed for spiritual growth. This friendship, though unplanned, played a vital role in deepening the author's relationship with the Lord, showcasing how God uses others to support us in our spiritual journeys. The beauty of this connection lay in its unexpectedness and the profound impact it had on both individuals.Finally, the third story describes a surprising friendship formed at a women's conference, where the author and a stranger were assigned as roommates. Both women were dealing with personal struggles, particularly the roommate who was grieving a recent miscarriage. Their shared experiences of loss and understanding created a deep, comforting bond, demonstrating how God can bring people together in the most unexpected ways to provide solace and companionship. These stories collectively highlight the mysterious and wonderful ways in which friendships can manifest and nurture our souls.
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Coffee with Friends in the Construction Zone and Why it Matters
I love the different ways God speaks to us. I wanted to share encouragement with you as you look to a new year and evaluate boundaries, how you spend your time, and with who! This morning God gave a M
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The Least of These: Caring for Others
The blog post beautifully reflects on the concept of "love in motion," inspired by a touching story of a mother and daughter caring for a lamb. It emphasizes that love is reflected in small acts of kindness and presence, revealing the heart of God when we support those in need, whether they are overlooked or struggling. These acts don't require grand gestures; they happen in everyday moments and are profound demonstrations of our calling to mirror divine love.The post encourages readers to be the hands and feet of Jesus, bringing hope and care to others, particularly those who feel forgotten. In doing so, we participate in a larger divine plan, showcasing that every heart matters. It reassures readers that God's love finds us in our fragility, promising support and encouragement in ways that demonstrate His goodness.Ultimately, the post calls to action by prompting reflection on how we can enact "love in motion" daily. It suggests that through simple gestures of kindness, we make a significant impact, healing hearts, and embodying God's presence. By seeking guidance, we can discover opportunities to make a difference and share the transformative power of love, enriching our lives and those of others.
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Surrendering to God’s Call: The Legacy Power of a Simple Yes
Have you ever considered the lineage of your “Yes”? That one, small act of surrender to God carries more significance than we often realize. Your “Yes” isn’t just for you
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How To Be Ready for a Storm You Cannot See as a Christian Woman
In this insightful blog post, the importance of preparation before life's inevitable storms is emphasized, highlighting that both physical and emotional challenges require foresight and readiness. Rather than focusing solely on tangible weather storms, the article draws a parallel to the personal storms within us that can arise unexpectedly. By referencing biblical principles, particularly Matthew 6:33, the post emphasizes the importance of seeking spiritual grounding and being anchored in faith to navigate life's unpredictable challenges.The article provides practical advice about storm preparation, drawing on the experiences of living in storm-prone areas like the Gulf Coast. It stresses the necessity of being prepared with essential supplies and equipment to alleviate stress and maintain peace during unexpected weather events. The lessons learned in physical preparation translate seamlessly into emotional fortitude, reinforcing the idea that preparation for life's internal storms—through mindfulness and a strong spiritual connection—can reduce fear and chaos.Furthermore, the blog underscores that even though challenges will occur regardless of one's faith, being spiritually proactive equips individuals to handle these situations with courage and tranquility. The post encourages readers to be mindful and intentional in their spiritual journey, ensuring they are mentally prepared to face life's trials. By maintaining focus on spiritual truths and being rooted in faith, individuals can manage personal storms more effectively, knowing they are supported and never alone.
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