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Transform Your Goal Setting for The New Year: The Power of NOT asking Why!

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As we approach 2025, many of us are starting to think about our goals for the coming year. But have you ever noticed how easily we can get stuck when someone asks us why we want to achieve something? Too often, we find ourselves shrugging and saying, "I don't know." It's time to change that narrative and dig deeper into our motivations. Let's explore how asking "so that" instead of "why" can revolutionize your goal-setting process.

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The Problem with asking yourself “Why" 5 times….

"Why" is a powerful question, but it can sometimes feel overwhelming when there are so many levels in our reasoning. When asked why we want to achieve something, we might feel defensive because our brain is freaking out and it becomes easier to toss out the “I Don’t Know.”. This can lead to surface-level answers or, worse, giving up on our goals altogether.

Here’s a little brain hack that is working for me, maybe it will wok for you if you find yourself blocking yourself…..try asking the "So That.”

By shifting our language from "why" to "so that," we open up to a specific thing. This simple change helps us focus on the outcomes and benefits of our goals, rather than just the reasons behind them. It encourages us to think more deeply about what we truly want to achieve.

Here are some examples:

1. Instead of asking, "Why do I want to lose weight?" try:
   "I want to lose weight so that I can have more energy to play with my kids."

2. Rather than, "Why do I want a promotion?" consider:
   "I want a promotion so that I can take on more challenging projects and grow my skills."

3. Instead of, "Why do I want to learn a new language?" think:
   "I want to learn a new language so that I can connect with people from different cultures and broaden my impact.”

More examples:
"I want to start a blog so that I can share my ideas with others, so that I can help change more lives.”
“I want to build a community of like-minded individuals, so that we can share one another’s burdens and lift the loneliness epidemic while also sharpening each others’s hearts and minds.”
“I want to be a better leader personally, so that I can make a positive impact on people's lives closest to me and as The oLd leads, so that I am walking confidently in my strengths nd purpose.”


As you start planning your 2025 goals, try this exercise:

1. Write down a goal you want to achieve.
2. Ask yourself, "I want to achieve this so that..."
3. Then, take this to the Lord and ask Him when I do this, how does this help me serve YOU better? How does this prepare me for the “so that” which You have planned for me, with You.




By reframing our goals with "so that," we cut through the surface-level reasons and get to the heart of what truly drives us. This approach not only clarifies our objectives but also reinforces our commitment to achieving them.

As you look ahead to 2025, challenge yourself to go beyond the "why" and embrace the "so that." You might be surprised at the insights you gain and the renewed sense of purpose you feel. Remember, understanding the deeper reasons behind your goals is the first step to turning them into reality.

So, what do you want to achieve in 2025, and more importantly, what does GOD have planned fo you, so that…?!?

Blessings & Grace,
Michele


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Heart Hugs and Blessings,
Michele

Why You Need an ‘Off the Grid Escape’: Refreshing Rest as a Mom and Leader in the Space of Grace

Hey Sweet Introvert! 
Are you running on fumes, pouring from an empty cup while trying to serve everyone, but yourself? It’s important to take time to hit the pause button and embrace a much-needed ‘Off the Grid-ish Escape.’ You don't really have to LITERALLY go "off-grid" but taking time away from Daily Life Demands are important. 

Since 2009, I’ve learned the refreshing power of stepping away from life’s demands to recharge my heart, mind, and soul. 

In this blog, I’ll share a practical example of what it looked like for me, in discovering rest and refreshment through quiet moments with the Lord, new adventures, and sweet treats. Whether it’s a walk in nature or savoring a homemade treat, these intentional breaks bring renewed joy and energy to live fully. Ready for your own permission slip to rest? I Got You! THIS is it!!! Signed, Your Big Sister, Michele
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Overcoming Burnout: A Christian's Guide to Finding Rest and Renewal in Faith

Then escapes begin to happen…running away from things or people. Avoiding, because you don’t feel like you have anything in the tank to give.

Feel seen? I see you, you are not alone.

Burnout is something many of us experience and I believe we can do a lot to avoid it. Let’s chat about what burnout is, how it can show up in our lives, and some practical steps to help us find rest and renewal.


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Sharing our Story when we traded Boots for Flip Flops

Our journey began with a calling from God to move from Houston, Texas, to the Florida Keys. In mid-2014, we felt a profound stirring and, after much prayer and anticipation, decided to follow what we believed to be a divine direction. Our plans initially included other locations, but God’s guidance ultimately led us to embark on an unexpected adventure in the Keys.

Apprehensions about practicalities, such as schooling, work, and the unknown environment, were quickly replaced by an overwhelming sense of peace and clarity. We faced numerous challenges, but God’s affirmations were undeniable, transforming our fears into joy and excitement. Embracing this significant life change required moving out of our comfort zones, yet it proved to be immensely rewarding and spiritually fulfilling.

This experience has deepened our faith and understanding that God often calls us to take leaps beyond practicality. Through surrender and trust, we found peace, expanded our boundaries, and strengthened our faith. As we continue our journey with love and patience, we encourage others to seek God's guidance, embrace His plans with open hearts, and witness the incredible results of living a faithful life.
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Simple Sister Series : The Bigger Table

Where are my shy-ish Introverts at? I don't know about you but until recent years, it wasn't that I didn't want to have more new friends....I just didn't have the energy or strength to develop the friendships, so I thought. If you've experienced chronic fatigue or ailments, you know what I mean.

And since I am committed to always being transparent, deep inside there was a part of me that was also afraid to put myself out there and risk rejection. So I rejected myself on their behalf and avoided the pain of the potential, hypothetical rejection of connection. Instead, I stayed in the back, busy being....blocking all with a shy smile on my face.

The Lord knows the desires of our hearts and meets us where we are, giving us who and what we need for each season. 

There are seasons He needs us to focus on friendship with Him above all else, learning to trust, learning who we are in Him, learning what we control and what we can't, learning the giving and receiving....so much...

I have been in seasons He was like, "Hey, here's a friend for ya!" and I wasn't even looking!! He's so gracious knowing what (and who) we need in our lives. When we trust Him, we learn how to let my heart open more quickly to the invitation to connect with a new heart. Not to say that they have full access, time reveals that part or permissions, but instead of avoiding them, we have opportunity to embrace them. 

It has been so much fun finally coming back out of what has felt like hibernation...I have prayed and asked the Lord to enlarge my circle of trust for mutually connected heart sisters. 

If you've ever had one-way friendships, you understand the mutually connected part....I have had both. One way, in that they didn't reciprocate the same way I was giving for whatever reason. Relationships have varying purposes and seasons.  Sometimes we just grow apart or absent-minded and unintentional with our energy and focus. 

Mutually connected for me means we have the same desire to serve and bless the other. It's reciprocal. These are much more rare to find the older we get. I am so thankful for the few the Lord has blessed me with. We show up in like-heartedness. No expectations, just desire to be in each other's lives and sharing life together whatever that looks like at any given season of time. Whether it is a few times a year getting together or a weekly coffee date, tis the season. 

Some relationships are built or maintained online only. Some are from years past, an old friend. Some are in the the every day mix of things, doing life together, while others are random life pop ins and spontaneous moments together.

There's no right or wrong way to "friend." As we each play a part in the Body, so do we each 
in the Heart of one another.

So as I look at the crowded tables, or the tables I don't feel like I am qualified to sit at, I pray and ask God to lead me to the table God has saved a seat for me. We can trust Him in this space, taking our eyes off of ourself, shifting away from fears, and focus on what He has in store. 

Then, God gives us the invitation to ask Him for help filling the other seats at the table, unafraid and with eager anticipation for the heart coming to sit beside us. Maybe they will be a mutually connected sister-friend. Maybe they are a one way Divine appointment to love on for such a time as this alone, or perhaps we are their Divine appointment to receive love from. 

For those of us who serve others through Hospitality and Encouragement, it's easy to get caught up thinking we are there to give, which is great, but one of the lessons I have had to learn, is God also places us at tables from which we are to receive, for such a time as this. 

Are you ready in heart to look beyond your familiar circles and welcome new hearts to your "friendship table?"

Here are some ways to look for new Christian friendships:
  1. Be Intentional: Pray, asking God to prepare your heart and help you see the ones He has gifted to you in a season. You never know where these friendships will come from. But God does! 
  2. Get Involved: Seek opportunities to surround yourself with other women who have common interests as you, seek friendships from different backgrounds, ages, or life stages. These relationships can broaden your perspective and deepen your faith whether they become part of your very inner circle or otherwise. I recently experienced this and I cherish my new friends so much.
  3. Practice Hospitality: Open your heart and if possible, your home. Set up a meet up online or off. Sharing a coffee or attending an event together is a powerful way to make new connections but as an Introvert especially if you lean towards shyness, don't wait around for the invite! BE the invite...even if it's on Zoom! I know it takes more from you if you're an Introvert or kinda on the shy side, but I promise you, the blessing is so good when you push past the nerve blocks.
  4. Join or Start a Small Group: This provides a structured environment to meet new people and grow together in faith around a topic you are both interested in whether it be online or offline and you don't have to lead it, just join it, until you're ready to create one.
  5. Volunteer: Serving alongside others often opens doors to meaningful friendships united by a common purpose.
  6. Be Patient: New friendships take time to develop. Don't rush the process or have set expectations of what the connection will be; allow trust and connection to grow into what God has planned.
  7. Pray for those Mutual Connections: Ask God to bring people into your life who will mutually encourage and stir up your faith as you give the same.
Remember, expanding your friendship circle and building a bigger table isn't always easy. It might feel awkward or uncomfortable at first, especially for you shy Introverts. You might encounter differences in opinions or experiences. It's a great way to learn from others as we step outside of our own bubbles. 

While I look to connect with people who have the same season as me, I also look for others who know more than me and have different experiences and gifting,  expanding my little world, often sharpening me in places I find I am weaker. 

Iron sharpening iron relationships are beautiful especially when they are inside the precious heart connection of Sisters.

As you welcome new friends into your heart, be prepared to both give and receive.  You have unique gifts and experiences to offer others. Widening your friendship circle isn't just about personal growth; it's about building The Body of Christ, bringing Him the glory as we shine our Lights as a city on a hill! 

Let's pray: Spirit, lead us, help us with courageous steps. Heavenly Father, give us courage to reach out beyond our comfort zones. Help us to see others as You see them, and to build friendships that reflect Your love. May our widening circles of friendship and tables we help build bring glory to Your name. Cast off all fear. Clear the seats set by You and help us partner with You to fill them, welcoming in the heart connections You have prepared for each one present. We trust You. We shine for You. We love You most. Amen.

As you expand your Christian friendships, remember Jesus' words in John 15:12, "Love each other as I have loved you." Let this be the foundation of all your friendships, old and new.

For more in the Sister Series, check out a recent one here.
If you struggle with social courage, I've got you with some practical help here.

Hugs & Love, Michele

If today's encouragement hugged your HEART today, let me know in the comments or meet me over
 in my Facebook Sisterhood Community! Feel free to share this blog with a friend who needs a heart hug too!
This is how YOU get to hug my HEART back!

Heart Hugs and Blessings,
Michele
 
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?Are you an Introvert Rising?!? If you are looking for a Community of HEART Centered, Jesus Lovin' Sisters ready to rise up over their insecurities and seek after the Heart of God?!?  Meet us here! 

I share encouragement over on the Facebooks on my personal profile as well as the Encouragement Page Livin’ Where Faith Is on too.

I have two free resources for you: 
1.) If you'd like some help sharing YOUR story or testimony, here's a link to grab the fill in the blank PDF I created to help you get started sharing YOUR heart with others! There's a video that goes with it over in the But God Sister Squad Community on Facebook.

2.) www.CreatingSpaceforGrace.com is PDF I share the things I have done (and do) the help guard my peace on the daily!!! I get asked about this all the time, this is my practical resource guide!

Heart Hugs and Blessings,

Michele"For this reason I bow my knees before the Father, from whom every family in heaven and on earth is named that according to the riches of His glory He may grant you to be strengthened with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith--that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may have strength to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God.
Now to Him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us, to Him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever. Amen."
Ephesians 3:14-21 ESV


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A Little About My Heart

 
Born and raised in the church, a Christ Follower, Kingdom Encourager, Wife, Mama, and an Overcomer! GLORY TO GOD!!

I lived most of my life fearful, anxious, and insecure.. I found myself always hiding but serving, striving for perfection in my less-thanness, as a way to earn my worth to self, God and others, sacrificing in the name of serving, hospitality and humility...putting others needs before my own from a place of hiding in my lack, and trying to earn value rather than serving in the space of grace, confident faith and overflowing love. 

Never attaining, only to lead a life of more insecurity, overwhelm, anxiety, and panic, screaming to break free from this bondage, to be that actual strong, courageous Christian Woman everyone else seemed to be, but me. 

BUT GOD.

In 2009, Where Faith Is was born as a blog, learning my voice behind the safety of a keyboard, building courage to speak my truth behind the screen...and here all these years later, Little by little, God is expanding my heart boundaries as He reveals more of His to me. I am so excited to share so freely! 

I especially love being an encourager to other encouragers in the faith who know they are called to encourage yet they themselves struggle with their value and ability. Isn't that how the enemy works? He tries to disqualify us in the same area we are called to shine! What an irony!  

I believe if more people let go of fear and insecurity, surrendered to grace and BELIEVED their value, their spark for life will return to a roaring fire that lights up wet wood! 

When women choose to walk courageous and strong in body, mind and spirit...they step out of the boat and walk on water as Peter did, part the waters like Moses and set more people FREE in His name through their Divine purpose to the Glory of GOD! We are each a Light House of Strength on the shorelines of Grace . 

Friend, you may not believe it, but you are meant for more than eat/sleep/work/repeat. You are also equipped with good works to serve and bless the Kingdom Body, and the world with His Love, through YOU! You've got to surrender your fear and let Him lead you.

You are more able than you think you are and most likely, the thing you feel is the weakest part of you is the strongest thing about you!

If you are an introvert too and want to be a part of our newly launching online community, we are here for you!! Let's Connect! It's an honor to encourage the Encouragers.

I am H.I.S. (Heart In Surrender & Service).

Hugs & Blessings, 
Michele

"So if there is any encouragement in Christ, any comfort from love, any participation in the Spirit, any affection and sympathy, complete my joy by being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind. Do nothing from rivalry or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. 
Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others." Philippians 2:1-4

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